Trusting your feelings

 

I am going to speak to you all about something very personal which happened to me. I was going to keep it to myself as I tend to be the type who likes to lick her wounds alone, but this is something I know must be shared. So as difficult as it is for me to say this, I feel I must share it.

I was molested by a “Healer”. This man approached me at one of my fave spots to unwind. When he approached me I immediately felt like he was no good. But I put it aside because I wanted to believe he could help me. I have been going through some of the most difficult times of my life. I am going through major growing pains so to speak. I know that these changes are for the best, but when he came to me….I was at one of my lowest points. I felt exposed, vulnerable, and profoundly helpless. The previous evening I had prayed (begged really) for some help. When this man came to me I originally thought he was not a good person, but then I thought, “You asked for help. Here is your help.” So I accepted his invitation. He told me that he doesn’t charge for his services, that he believes that if he charged for it, he would loose his power. So he knocked down my financial wall. I agreed to meet him at a public spot so he could read my palm and give me healing. So I met with him. I was very nervous about meeting him tho. I sent a pic of his business card to a friend just in case. (all signs that I should’ve listened to) I met with him and and he read my palm. He told me some profound things. He also told me some things that I didn’t agree with. But such is true with most healers and psychics that we meet. You must only trust what feels right or resonates with you. He said a few things that made me squirm, but when he spoke to me it felt like a teacher speaking to a student. Nothing too bad. So he then said he wanted to meet me to do his healing work. We decided to do it on my birthday. Sounded like a wonderful way to spend my special day ….. I was wrong.

The day of the “healing” I was nervous again. I was profoundly worried that something was going to go wrong. I should’ve listened to that, tho as my friend pointed out, it was my birthday and nothing bad is supposed to happen on your birthday! I will not go into detail as to what happened in that room, but it was the most uncomfortable I have ever been in my whole life! I had to make him stop many times over and should’ve made him stop for good but I wanted to believe that it wasn’t what I thought it was. He tried to touch things that should not be touched by a healer, EVER. As a healer myself, I should’ve known to totally stop him then, but I didn’t. He didn’t do anything that would’ve constituted rape, but if I hadn’t controlled him, I believe he would’ve. He has been calling me since the day and is getting meaner with each message he leaves. I will be going to the police as I don’t want this to happen to anyone else. Esp someone who would assume all of this was acceptable.

Having now been through this, I now feel it is necessary for me to talk about it so other Women and Men know that if they are by any means uncomfortable with a Healer’s work, they have the right to stop them! Perverts are many things, but the one thing they rarely are are discriminators, they come in every profession, every type of personality, every spiritual belief. Do not ever think that just because the person is more knowledgeable about a healing modality than you, or comes from a country that is famous for healing, that they can do something to you that makes you uncomfortable. If there is something that causes you discomfort, they should find another way to do it, and be happy to do so! This man actually told me that he heals men different than how he heals women. He said he works on Men’s heads only. He doesn’t take the “venom” out of their bodies, like he does women. I asked him “Well, then can’t you heal me like you heal Men?” He laughed and said “Don’t be silly my dear! You are a Woman!”

If anything positive can come from this horrid experience, my wish is that my words can help prevent it from happening to someone else. Please, everyone always listen to those gut instincts and NEVER once let someone do something physically to you that makes you uncomfortable, esp if they are doing it under the guise of a Healer. Healing work should be beautiful, profound, and cause you to feel a million times better after you walk away from the session.

And if this has ever happened to you, know you are not alone! Know that you are not a bad person and YOU DID NOT MAKE THIS HAPPEN! IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! Don’t be ashamed! Move forward, one step at a time and let it be a lesson for you. I have learned more about myself in that brief encounter than I could’ve in hours of meditation. Trust me, I’d prefer the meditation, but I can’t turn back the hands of time. So I embrace the lessons given to me and I hold onto faith in myself and my guides. I know that life is still profoundly beautiful and that I am a much stronger person because of all of this! Hold your heads high and listen to those gut feelings everyone! And NEVER -EVER- let someone steal your light!

Shine on! ,

Alysia

Leo Moon

 

Hey there #Leo Moons! Let’s DO THIS! *Rawr!* ;~)

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♌ Hello sweet Leo Moons! I see you are hurt, how would you like to work through it? <—a great way to help this particular Moon Sign. Leo Moons tend to know exactly how they like to lick their wounds. If a person gets in the way then WATCH OUT! This Moon Sign has a flair for the dramatic. Those closest to them are made to know when they are sick, sad, or mad. Those whom they don’t know so well would have no idea if they just lost their job or the beloved pet just died! They can be a bit reserved with the ones they don’t know so well, mainly cause they find it embarrassing for them to see them upset. (it’s a pride thing) But the ones they know, WELL! They WANT them to know! They WANT them to feel what they are going through. They don’t really want much help with it, (unless they are sick, then they LOVE it when you dote on them! Makes them know they are loved!) tho if they come to you and ask for help, know you are a very important person in their lives! L/M’s really let only a few people in their “pride” when it comes to their emotional health. For a L/M it feels good to be a bit dramatic when they are upset because they tend to fix it pretty quickly. They don’t like to be in the negative emotions for too long, so they know how to heal those wounds pretty quickly. However their methods for healing *may* seem a bit over the top for other Moon Signs. If you are a L/M and don’t do this, then you may be holding too much in! Let it out! You will heal WAY quicker! Kick, scream, roar, pout, whatever brings you back to you! This Moon is actually a delightful group when they are happy. If there is something sentimental that needs to be done, let them do it! It will be GOOD! Something that is emotionally charge? Let them handle it! They can do great moving speeches and can really unite a group emotionally speaking. L/Ms are great at rallying the troops too! So, L/M’s if you are feeling down, gather a group of friends and family and do something fun together! Let your emotions out to them as well. Your emotions are quite beautiful actually. Many around you can benefit from them. As odd as that sounds, it is true! Leo is ruled by the Sun, so when the Sun shines on the Moon it reflects right? WELL! Many can better understand their own emotions if you talk about yours. Perhaps write a blog about how you feel or even a self*help book! L/M’s have a way with emotions and so many could use their help! On the flip side, L/M’s can look to others emotions to help them with their own. SO when you are down watch a sad show, movie, or read a sad book. Talk to your friends and fam about their emotions, esp if you have the same issues goin on. L/M’s can be quite big and bold, however they are also quite humble and courteous. So if you -as a L/M- are fighting an emotion, look to another person who is “going through it” too and see yourself in them. This may be the quickest way for you to heal those wounds….then write about it cause your sharp observations can really help us all!

Cancer Moon

Hello there #Cancer Moons!! Lets get through this together!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♋ Hey there Cancer Moon Babies! How are you? How’s your family? <—-one of the greatest questions you could ask this Moon sign! Whether they are sad or not! They LOVE their families! If they were not raised with the greatest fam, they will search it out in other ways. If you meet a Cancer Moon person who lives alone and is not connected to a family unit of ANY kind, you have found a VERY depressed C/M! The beautiful thing about this sign is that Cancer’s planet IS THE MOON! This lucky group of people have a great connection with their emotions and can really work though any of them with more efficiency than most Moon Signs. There is a catch tho. Since they are SO emotional, they may have been taught at a young age to disconnect from their feelings. They may have been told that they are WAY too emotional and to … well … suck it up! You may know a few C/M ppl who seem cold and -or- uncaring. This is just a learned habit from childhood. Trust me, they feel things, and they feel them deeply! They just don’t allow them to come to the surface very often! There is also another extreme to this sign … the over the top emotional person. A lot of the time the Rising and -or- Birth Sign will give you an indication as to why they are sooo extreme with those emotions! For instance a Scorpio {Rising or Birth} paired with a C/M would be a very emotional soul. A Leo {Rising or Birth} would cause a C/M to be a bit showy w/those emotions. So ya, the other signs will really clue you in to why and how these deep souls feel. So! How do we make them feel better? Well! As mentioned before, family is BIG to them. As a C/M, if you feel off, call up a family member, or connect with a person you feel is a part of your family. If you find yourself a bit depressed, try to join a group of some sort! Be it online, or in person, connect with like minded ppl. I wouldn’t suggest joining a sports group. Competition is not really a C/M thing. It’s not that they don’t like the comradely, its that they don’t like to see disputes and competition among their family. Another great healing tactic is to let a friend or family member talk out their problems with you. For you, healing their issues is a greater balm for your hurt feelings than for any other Moon Sign. If you can’t get to a person to help you get back to a sense of normalcy, try re*arranging your family home! Make your house cozy and happy for you and your family. Maybe run some errands for your loved ones. Or even buy them something special. Another great tip for C/M’s is that your emotions will pass. Embrace them. Go with the ebb and flow of them. They may be down now, but they will come back soon. Please don’t think that your emotions are fleeting or shallow, quite the opposite! But the intensity of them will diminish and you will be able to better resolve them once they have. Also, pay extra close attention to the moon and her phases! They REALLY effect you! I mean REALLY + REALLY + REALLY! I won’t tell you which will do what cause it’s all deeply personal! What may work for others here may not work for you. SO! Just pay attention. Look for ups and downs emotionally, and also when you feel empowered and ready to get a lot done. In addition to this, I would also say look to the Moon when she dances into the different signs. Each Sign she goes through effects you profoundly. She is your guiding light, so use her to your advantage! :~D

Gemini Moon

 

Hello #Gemini Moons!!! Let’s chat!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♊ Hello Gemini Moon Babies! How are you??? Wanna talk about it??? <—–Oh so soothing to a Gemini Moon person! A VERY verbally expressive bunch, you can help them heal by simply listening to them! Gemini is the sign of the twins. When this chatty sign waltzes into your Moon (which shows us how we deal with our feelings) you will find great peace in talking about your feelings. As a matter of fact, it may actually be hard for you NOT to! If you should find yourself alone, without a person to talk to about your emotions, talk it out by yourself (tho I’m sure you already do!) OR! Write about it! For you the cathartic act of spilling your thoughts and feelings is beyond healing! Another great way for a G/M person to heal frayed emotions would be to take a long drive. Get in the car and go! Something about being in motion is profoundly soothing to you. If you can have someone in the car with you to talk it out with, you are golden! G/M’s have a quick quick brain. If you know and love one, don’t get upset if they cut you off mid sentence! They already got the jist of what you are sayin, and they are ready to move on. Never think they don’t catch on to the little neuences (sp?) of your conversation. A very intuitive lot, they can really sense what you are feeling and really take in ALL of the subtle shifts of your exchange. So never for once think they aren’t paying attention. :~) As a G/M person, you may find yourself up one moment then down the next. Extremely social one second, and then totally introverted the next! There is almost an element of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde goin on here. But unlike the other duel signs, like Libra and Pisces, you actually don’t mind too much when you are “off”. As long as you can talk about it and let it out, you are GOOD!  Another trick to help you when you are down would be to learn something new! That quick mind that is constantly going needs to be fed! G/M’s grasp a lot quickly! So take a quick trip to the bookstore or peruse the internet to learn some new facts. G/M’s actually probably loved shows like pop up video, where there was a bunch of facts that would pop up on the screen while a video played. They absorbed all the info and are able to bust it out should the situation call for it! The internet is another great way for them to calm down! Get on there to blog, chat, or check in on a site like FB. Even if a G/M isn’t really totally upset, having a conversation with a person makes them feel comfortable and happy. So strike up a convo at the grocery store or with your neighbor! For those who know and love a G/M don’t worry or be annoyed with them should they appear to bounce from subject to subject, or from hobby to hobby! This is their own quiet way of healing/pacifying themselves. I’m sure many of you were annoyed with them in school because they always seemed to get great grades when they rarely studied or seemed not pay attention at all! But that’s just it, their minds are sponges! So they really do get it all! Don’t he hatin! LOL! So, G/Ms calm that busy mind by learning something new or talking about your feelings. And when all else fails, go for a ride! You will be back to your dynamic self in no time!

Taurus Moon

 

Hello #Taurus Moons! Let’s ROCK!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♉ Hi there Taurus Moon Babies! How are you?? Need your pillow fluffed? How bout a hug??? <—some of the most comforting things you can do for a person who has ANY of the Taurus Signs in a significant place in their their chart! {Sun, Rising, Moon} Taurus is a sign of stability, patience, and comfort. These are great incites into the way you can comfort your Taurus Moon! If a T/M finds themselves in the dumps, they should turn to their creature comforts. For them regularity and pattern are their most soothing actions. This is beyond repetition….you can’t sooth yourself by doing the same task over and over, like washing dishes or something of that nature. It is more like a familiar habit, >>Brushing your teeth before bed – Your Morning/Evening routine – How you shower……etc. There are many examples here, I’m sure you are beginning to get it. :~) Folks of this Moon *may* seem a bit OCD….the most you will see this tendency is at home! Taurus ppl are BIG on home! They LOVE their home to be extremely comfortable to THEM! The rest of the ppl in the house can be cozy…..just after they have decided that it’s comfortable for them too. As a T/M person you will find comfort profoundly emotionally stabilizing. So if you are having a rough day, fluff those pillows and curl up in your luxurious bed. Soft, silky things actually sooth you. I’m sure many of you had a fave blanket as a child, like Linus on the Peanuts. To help comfort a T/M person, put your own feelings aside and show them that their feelings come first at that very moment. They are not a selfish bunch of people, however they need to have their comfort first. Then they will be the most giving bunch! Many T/M ppl find comfort in money. They are not snobby about it, it’s just they like to make money and are actually very good at it! They LOVE to spend their dough on their home and things that are pretty and comfortable. When upset, a T/M person will actually greatly benefit from “retail therapy”! If you know and love one, take them out shopping when they are frazzled! They will find their groove again once they purchase some beautiful things. They do loved to be doted upon, however the best gift you can give them would be a gift certificate! Sometimes all a T/M person needs is a good ol fashioned hug when they are upset! They LOVE to cuddle! Many end up in professions where they have to touch people all day long. They love the contact….it really does calm them. As a very tactile Moon Sign, anything soft is awesome to them! Many people under the T/M end up being hair twirlers! They may rub their hands often. the men may play with facial hair. A great soother for a T/M in distress would be a worry stone. The slick feel of the stone in their hand when they are nervous calms them down right away! If you know you are gonna be in a high stress situation, wear something soft and flowy. That way you can fiddle with it when you begin to get worked up. Another T/M trait is patience. So when your patience wears out, get your hands busy with something and do it quick! The best thing actually would probably be something that would take patience, like building a model or a puzzle of some sort. Perhaps knitting or sewing. T/Ms pride themselves on their patience, so when it does break they tend to get more mad at themselves for giving up then on the person or situation that didn’t work out. So when this happens they MUST take a second to see how far they came. Also for an earthy T/M person, it may be hard for them to see how everything happens for a reason and all that trust stuff. For them it’s like putting the cart before the horse…or in this case, the bull. So in these times, it’s important for them to take a moment to see (A) How much they helped the person or situation by believing in it (B) How much better things are w/o it actually coming into fruition (C) that this may actually be for the best, even if we can’t see the end result just yet. And they must realize that their patience wasn’t a waist. All is good! :~) So get those hands busy when you are upset if you can’t be home in your palace of comfort and peace! T/M ppl also find great comfort in love, romance, and beauty…..they are ruled by Venus after all! They don’t find spiritual or even intellectual comfort in it like their Venus relative Libra, but it really does register on a very earthy level to them. Colors bring them great peace and joy and music helps relax them too. <—preferably natural colors and sounds. -Mostly when in need of comfort. They may feel a bit different when they are happy. :~)

Aries Moon

HI #Aries Moons! Let’s charge ahead!!!!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♈ Hello Aries Moon heros! CHARRRRRGGGEEEE!!!!!! <—-This Sign LOVES to do that! :~D Got an issue, lets face it head on! Aries Moon people tend to have their emotions under control. If they get mad, they are mad, if they get sad, they are sad. If they are happy….you get it. They don’t find intrigue or mystique in their feelings, unlike many other Moon Signs. A/M ppl are the types who take to things, that many would consider scary, like a fish to water! This powerful group will be the first one in the family to begin to organize a family funeral when a loved one passes. They will be the one to lead the charge when many may be struggling with their sorrow and pain. This is not to say that A/Ms don’t feel as deeply as others, it’s just they see it in a matter of fact way. And if you EVER try to tell them how to feel, you will feel the full force of the warrior! If that warrior ever is wounded, the best way to pick them back up is to remind them how great they are! Tell them all the great things about them, show them how you admire them. Another great way to help them out is to show them that you were hurt. They will put aside their own sorrow to take care of whatever you need. A/Ms are a very passionate bunch. If you (as an A/M) should feel down, turn to one of your many passions. -Such as fighting for those less fortunate or weaker than you. A/Ms love to lead the charge against many injustices, so when you feel off, turn to these things. If you should stumble upon an A/M person who is listless, unengaged, or even meek, you have found a depressed A/M! This powerful Moon should be just that. They are here to help us embrace our own emotions and demystify them! Should you feel off in anyway, treat a friend to lunch! Show them a good time! It will set you straight. As much as an A/M likes to hear how great they are, they are really profoundly giving and loving. Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac so they are always seen as the “first child”. So yes, they like to be fluffed up, but they also love to set their own needs aside to help you out! When Aries charges into your Moon, you tend to find yourself being more interested in helping others than being told how great you are. The Sun in our chart is the ego, that shows us how we like to be looked at. So when Aries is in your Moon (A-K-A your shadow or hidden side) you tend to cultivate the less showy side of this powerhouse sign. So when darkness begins to overshadow your heart, look to those less fortunate than yourself and help them out. As an A/M person, it’s not like you don’t understand WHAT and WHY you are feeling what you are feeling, so you just need to adjust your focus during these times. The other side of this Moon Sign is that your emotions can be quick to flare. Usually it’s your temper that takes center stage. When this happens you may feel like the proverbial bull in the china shop. When your anger slips it leash, you feel some of your greatest regret and sorrow. The best thing you can do when your anger rises is channel that energy elsewhere. {like the causes I spoke of earlier, or fighting for a friend/loved one} I feel a strong sense that A/M ppl would benefit greatly from exercise that is profoundly exhausting. Like running, biking, or swimming. Their bodies need to move when their tempers flair. So take the inner hint and go for a run when you feel this happening. By the end of it you will be back to normal and you will find your anger a thing of the past! If any of you saw the new movie Thor, he is a PERFECT example of an Aries spirit! Do the best you can to appease your inner warrior and you will be a dynamic powerhouse who can seriously change the world!

Pisces Moon

 

Hello sweet #Pisces Moon friends! Let’s rock!!!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart​/ to find out your Moon Sign

♓ *Speaking Softly* Hello sweet spirit. What movie would you like to watch today??? <—Great thing to ask/do to sooth a Pisces Moon baby! The symbol of the fish is a highly intuitive, sensitive, giving sign who is an expert at escaping! When Pisces swims into your Moon (which shows us how we cope with our emotions among many other things) we find a person who’s intuition is off the charts! They also can be quite emotionally extreme. Where a Scorpio Moon (which also happens to be a water sign) can be biting when their emotions flair, a P/M person tends to become a bit weepy and self-deprecating. And this may happen more then they would like. SO! As a highly sensitive (both emotional and psychically speaking) sign, comfort and peace is something which they strive for most of their lives! A great way to accomplish this is by escaping in anyway you see fit! Watch a movie, play a video game, read a book, etc. These diversions really help you find your inner peace. Often P/M’s get frustrated with themselves when they are down in the dumps. This is probably the worst thing they can do to themselves! It is important for them to learn to ride the waves of their emotions, instead of fighting against stream! If you are -by chance- a Virgo with a P/M you may have the worst time trying to understand your emotions. Virgos need to work and when a Pisces is down, they need to sit and relax. My point here is to look to your Sun Sign and your Rising to look a bit deeper into your emotions and how you fight/deal with them. If you find yourself being self-deprecating when you are blue, listen to your P/M heart and allow yourself to ride those waves. Don’t fight it. That is probably one of the greatest things you can do as a P/M person. Don’t fight it. Also when you do turn to TV/Movies/Games/Books to escape, be sure it is doled out evenly. Don’t get too obsessed. When you feel better, come back to the waking world and go about your business! On occasion P/M ppl like to go into hiding when they are off. This is ok P/M people! Embrace, embrace, embrace! Take a few moments alone and then come back to your friends and family. Many tend to feel a large sense of guilt when they crave their time. This is due to their highly intuitive mind as well as their profound need to help people. A P/M person will give you the shirt off their back if you need it! So if you know and love a P/M person do your best not to take advantage of them! And as a P/M person, turn to this in times of sorrow. If you look to help others, you will take the focus off of your emotions. This will be nice and comforting. Another great trick is to day dream when you are down. If you have no electronics around you, let your mind wander! If you have a flair for writing, take advantage of your sad times by writing! You will find some of your greatest pieces during this time! Now, all this talk of escaping may make it sound like P/M ppl can’t handle emotions…quite the contrary! They are one of the strongest Moon sign in the Zodiac! They are -almost- constantly feeling others junk! And they almost like it! They know no different, so they face others emotions full steam ahead. They aren’t afraid in the slightest! Their own emotions are a bit of a different story! Many of the times, their sorrow comes from a natural internal waxing and waning. So if they can just ride out the dark times, they will be able to better understand them when the light comes back. :~) So, if you are a P/M or you know and love one, curl up, get cozy and wait out the storm! Because once it passes, the sun will bring vibrant new beauty into your lives once again!

Aquarius Moon

 

Ello, ello quirky #Aquarius Moon friends! Let us ROCK!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♒ Hi Aquarius Moon Babies! How are you? What do you think about this situation? <—-Aquarius Moon people LOVE + LOVE + LOVE + LOVE logic! The image of the Aquarius sign is a confusing one as it is a water bearer…one would think this would be a person who is emotional, because water represents emotions {esp to the zodiac!}. However Aquarius are one of the more logical signs. Like Libra, they are seen as distant and detached. What triggers an Aquarius Moon person then? What brings them down? When people try to tell them how to be, what to do, or try to define them! Drives them crazy! A/M ppl LOVE to be free. For them it is emotionally draining to be stifled in any way shape or form! If you try to tell them they are one way they will be the other just so that they won’t be told how they are! Even though their emotions are held at a distance -even to themselves!- it doesn’t mean they don’t have them! They are deep and can suddenly rise up. When a A/M person finds themselves in the throws of an emotional eruption, they *must* have friends / family / community around them to help sooth them. A/M ppl are some of the friendliest and most loyal ppl of the zodiac! This gives them a HUGE following and support system. They rarely use this, but when they hit a bump in the road, those people who they helped so many times come running to them! If you know and love an A/M person, don’t be offended or frustrated if you find them to be a bit emotionally unavailable. This doesn’t mean they don’t care. Let them show you their love in many other ways. Logic runs deep for Aquarius {Sun, Moon, or Rising Signs}. They LOVE to see what makes people tick! If you, as an A/M person, find yourself off or upset, take some time to fully understand WHY. If it involves a person,  figure out why they did what they did! This will pull you out of the sticky emotions of it all and bring you back to your eccentric self again. A/Ms are one of the more complex of the zodiac. They are a walking contradiction. SO! A/Ms, if you find yourself down in the dumps, try something new, something perhaps out of your character. Aquariuans HATE to be defined, so why do that to yourself! Try something new and different, it should snap you right out of whatever you are in. As much as logic and reason can help you, art and beauty can also help you! Perhaps taking the time to create something unique that you can wear, or can put up in your home will loosen up the shackles of sorrow. If that doesn’t do it, then try searching for something unique that you can display at home or on yourself. Puzzles are another thing that can really sooth an A/M person. Whether they are actual jigsaws, trying to figure out why a person did what they did, OR finding the perfect meaningful gift for one of your many friends, they help you work out the knots of worry and sadness. So dare to be different and work those puzzles to find your inner peace when the occasional emotions bubble up to the surface!

Capricorn Moon

 

Hey there Capricorn Moon people! Let’s DO THIS!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart/ to find out your Moon Sign

♑ Hello Capricorn Moon Babies!! Are you ready for this??? No really, are you?..take your time. No rush. <—-Some of the kindest words you can express to a Capricorn Moon person! They need the time to fully process their feelings and thoughts. If you have given them a whopper of sadness, painful news, or even just a giant change, give them a bit to figure out how they feel about it! As a C/M person, take a few to process ANYTHING. If you feel out of sorts or like you are being forced to do anything, take a moment to plan and organize your thoughts! Where Virgo {Moon, Sun, and Rising signs} like to organize, Capricorn {Moon, Sun, and Rising signs} like to plan! It is almost unnerving to them to have an emotion show up that they didn’t expect! You probably hear most C/M people say things like “I would CRY! if I was in that situation!” or that they’d laugh, or even HOW they would deal with it! For them it is easiest to understand a situation if they see it through their own eyes first. I suppose a good term to use here would be empathize, but it’s not really on the same level as the Scorpio Moon people. For C/M ppl they are just seeing how they would really deal with a situation like that so they can be better prepared for it if it should happen! SO! as a C/M person, if you find that you have painted yourself in a corner or you have slumped down into the land of sorrow and despair…..plan your way out of it! Seriously! Take some time to strategize your next step! This is SO emotionally comforting for you that you may find yourself getting into situations where you must plot your way out of them! If you can’t seem to figure your own puzzle out, think about someone else. Look at other peoples problems and see how you would get out of them. Perhaps even look to how you would make sure they never happen to you! Capricorns LOVE to get stuff done! They also love to control situations. As a C/M who is upset, take these truths to heart! Look to your life and see where you are lacking. Focus your thoughts and energies on whatever it is and GET IT DONE! If you find that you have lost control of all that is around you {which happens often due to that damn free will stuff!} focus on yourself! Control bits and pieces of your life! Work hard to NOT become obsessed over things you would like to control because that would send you into a tailspin! {i.e don’t focus TOO much on your weight as it could turn to an eating disorder!} Try to work on controlling you NOT others because they will just slip out of your hands! Tho, C/M people do thrive in these situations, SO perhaps being an elementary school teacher or day care person would be great for you! Perhaps training dogs and or cats! My point is focus that energy on things / people / animals who need to be controlled! If you find a C/M person who is living a chaotic life and is letting someone else totally control them…..then you have found a very depressed C/M!!! So take time to control your own life and you will find the groove in your surrounding world! Also, face the facts! Capricorns LOVE facts! Ruled by the teaching planet Saturn, Capricorns are straight talking -occasionally- stern/strict people who don’t like to beat around the bush. If you, as a C/M person, find yourself surrounded by wishy washy people, plan your way out! This is not good for your sanity! :~) C/M people tend to take it as a personal affront when a person is not straight up with them! So if you know and love one, always be honest and fully open with them! You will have a soul connection for life if you do!

Sagittarius Moon

 

Hey #Sagittarius Moon friends!! Let’s ROCK and ROLL!!!

..!::!:!:!Note>The only info I am going to discuss here is how to comfort those born under these Moon Signs. There is A LOT more to our Moon Signs, AND it is very important to take in to account your Rising Sign as well as your Birth Sign. So the info I am going to share here may or may not strike a cord with you. So if it doesn’t don’t give up on Astrology completely! Get your Chart read and you will see how in depth it can be!:!:!:!.. visit>> http://alabe.com/freechart​/ to find out your Moon Sign

♐ Why hello Sagittarius Moon Babies! How are you?! I was wondering, could you help me figure this problem out? <—-That is probably one of the quickest ways to help a Sag Moon person out of a funk! They LOVE to give advice, AND they are REALLY good at it! One of the most giving signs of the Zodiac, Sagittarius LOVE to help! SO when you {as a Sag Moon person} find yourself in a funk, focus on service! Turn to those you love and see what you can do to help them. Sagittarius’ are famous for not really fully understanding their emotions, so having this sign in your Moon, you may find that your emotions are a bit elusive -and or- expansive. You *may* feel like no one could understand your feelings so there’s no point in sharing them! When you find yourself in this place, take some time to figure out your feelings. See what it is you truly feel. Water them down a bit then talk about them! Share them with your friends and family. Let them help you a bit. For a S/M person, giving someone advice is a no strings attached thing. Once they tell you what they think, they let the outcome go. They are rarely offended if you don’t follow their advice. BUT! S/Ms have been burned by people who don’t share their views on advice giving. They have felt controlled by people who want them to fully follow their advice! SO! If you can water down those feelings and issues to a neutral place, you can find that ppl can be just as free form as you with their advice. One of the greatest ways you can do this is probably through humor. Tell your loved ones your sad story in a funny way. S/M ppl don’t like to get bogged down by emotions, so when they laugh at them they find them to be less scary or confining and can therefore work through them in a more efficient manor. One of the funniest signs of the Zodiac, Sag’s LOVE to tell and hear a good joke! SO when you find a S/M down in the dumps, watch a funny movie or show with them. When the problem seems less serious, they can face it full force. Another great way of healing for S/Ms is to get out there and do something! Plan a BIG trip! Or take a LONG drive somewhere. If they’ve got the money for it, take a far off vacation! If they don’t, just watch a travel show or read an article about a far off place. Sag’s also LOVE philosophy, ethics, and religion. So when you are feeling blue, read up on these subjects and -or- discuss them with someone. For S/M people it’s best to step away from extreme emotions and confining situations, if you feel that you are being controlled in anyway, do something that shows your independence. Have a soda just before bed! WHY? BECAUSE YOU CAN! ;~) Call off of school/work one day. Take yourself somewhere fun! Go for a long drive, take yourself on an adventure! Go see a funny movie! Be FREE! That is the greatest gift you can give to your aching S/M soul.

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